Time: In today’s world of instant coffee, sound bite news clips, and heady rush around, it is not surprising that most people have taken to the mindset that “sex must be spontaneous”. But let’s get real here, what are we really saying? The dictionary defines “spontaneous” – impulsive,unprompted, spur-of-the-moment, so going by these definitions, in my opinion “spontaneous sex” is a recipe for unsatisfactory sex.
Sex is an expression of love and loving. It is not an impulsive act. It is to be savored. Sex with your partner like most things in our lives should be planned.
Where is spontaneity going to fit in here? You have to be realistic about your sex life. Plan it. How else are you going to get to it and enjoy it?
Talk: Do you know, most couples do not talk about their sex life? They just do it. A couple’s sex life is enhanced when they take time to talk before, during and after the act. How they are faring, how they want to be touched, what they want done, and how they are feeling. Pillow talk really works wonders to your sex life.
Trust: Love, loving and sex works best in a relationship where couples trust each other. Trust makes partners comfortable with one another and this makes it easy for them to..Continue..Reading..
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